Intentional Bonus Conversations: Building Trust & Growth

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All workplace conversations carry a red thread that ties their intent to their impact. In this series, Red Thread Connections, we explore themes like intentional bonus conversations. These moments reveal how dialogues inspire meaningful change and the stories people carry home.

This week, we’re focusing on intentional bonus conversations. They are more than transactional discussions. Instead, they are opportunities to strengthen trust, clarify performance, and inspire growth.

Delivering Bonuses with Intention

In a recent training session, I led a discussion about how leaders deliver bonuses to employees. This topic often brings challenges.

While the intent was well-meaning, we explored the potential impact of this approach. Without context or connection to individual contributions, such a delivery risks being perceived as impersonal or dismissive, potentially leaving employees confused about how their efforts influence their rewards.

Then again, another manager highlighted a more intentional approach their company employs: providing performance updates throughout the year to help frame the company’s bonus decisions. This opened the door to a role-play scenario.

In the exercise, an employee received a reduced individual component of their bonus due to performance but was only told, “Great job overall,” with no further explanation. One leader observed that the lack of detail might leave the employee unaware of areas needing improvement, missing an opportunity for growth and alignment.

The Dual Perspectives of Bonus Conversations

To create intentional bonus conversations, leaders should address two key perspectives:

  1. The Company Perspective – Share updates on company performance. Explain how bonuses reflect business results and connect payouts to goals.
  2. The Individual Perspective – Highlight specific achievements. Recognize contributions and give feedback that inspires growth.
Lessons from the Red Thread

The key takeaway? Delivering bonuses is more than distributing numbers—it’s an opportunity to weave the red thread between organizational success and individual contributions. Leaders who approach these conversations with intention leave employees feeling informed, inspired, and engaged.

Key Takeaways for Leaders:

  • Avoid Generic Delivery: A one-size-fits-all method risks making employees feel undervalued.
  • Integrate Dual Perspectives: Integrate company performance updates with personalized feedback for better results.
  • Use Conversations as Development Tools: Bonus discussions should celebrate achievements and encourage future progress.
  • Learn from Peers: Share and refine strategies with other leaders to improve communication.
Why Simplification Matters

Simplifying bonus structures is crucial. Research from SHRM shows that clear bonus plans enhance trust and engagement. Employees better understand how their work connects to rewards.

By simplifying your bonus plans and approaching conversations with intention, you foster a culture where every discussion builds trust, strengthens connections, and inspires growth.

About the Author: Stacy Fenner

Stacy Fenner is a Senior Consultant and Program Director for MorganHR. Over the course of her 25 years of human resources experience she developed a passion for inspiring and coaching others to achieve results. Stacy’s multiple certifications—including InsideOut Coaching, Korn Ferry Leadership Architect, and many more—have given her a wealth of perspectives to draw from in designing effective customer solutions. Her expertise lies in the areas of HR Consulting, Employee Engagement, Culture, Coaching, and Leadership Development.